Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Sister Barret's Talk from 5/25/2014

Hello everyone! And good afternoon. My name is Sister Barret and I’ve been serving here in the Oakville ward for about 2 months now.

As a missionary, you’re invited to speak fairly frequently, and I can attest that it doesn’t get much easier with practice. I did a lot of pondering about what to share today. As I considered it, my thoughts keep turning to the word “remember.”

One of my companions, very firmly believed in the power of positive thinking and speaking. One of her quirks was that she never said “forget” –it was always “remember.” So, instead of saying “We can’t forget to go to that appointment!” We would say, “We have to remember to go to that appointment!” Or, instead of saying, “I don’t want to forget my planner,” it was, “I want to remember my planner.”
Her reasoning was based on the scriptures. As she explained to me, whenever people in the scriptures are sharing something important, they almost always say “remember” not “forget.”

So ever since that companion, I haven’t been able to read the scriptures without noticing how often we are told to remember. And today, I wanted to share just a few of the things we are counseled to remember in the scriptures.

First, we are told to remember the commandments of God. In the law of Moses, they had to wear certain things, that they might “remember all the commandments and do them.” (Numbers 15:39). Alma speaking to his son Helaman in Alma 37:13 says, “O remember, remember my son Helaman, how strict are the commandments of God. And he said, if ye will keep my commandments, ye shall prosper in the land.” And Helaman, speaking to his two sons, says it plainly: “Ye should remember to keep the commandments of God.”

Heavenly Father has given us commandments so that we can have peace in this life, and eternal life in the world to come. When we remember the commandments, we are remembering how to travel the path that God has revealed, and we can receive His blessings.

Next in Doctrine & Covenants 18:10, we are told to “remember the worth of souls is great in the sight of God,” and to “remember them that are in bonds.” We have many blessings, and one of those blessings is the opportunity we have to share the peace and direction we have with our brothers and sisters. On the first page of Preach My Gospel, it says, “You are surrounded by people. You pass them on the street, visit them in their homes, and travel among them. All of them are children of God, your brothers and sisters…Many of these people are searching for purpose in life…They want ‘peace in this world and eternal life in the world to come,’ but they are ‘kept from the truth because they know not where to find it.’” For me, this helps take away a lot of my fears about missionary work! When I remember that each person I talk to is my brother or sister, I can feel an increase in love. Missionary work changes from scary to a lot more natural.

The scriptures also counsel us to remember those who went before us. In Deuteronomy 32:7, it says, “Remember the days of old, consider the years.” Alma asks each of us, “Have ye sufficiently retained in remembrance the captivity of your fathers?” (Alma 5:6) Over and over again in the scriptures, prophets remind us to remember our fathers—those who were righteous and relied on God, and gave us our heritage. I was studying a while ago, and I came across a scripture where Nephi was rebuking his brothers for not remembering the miracles the Lord performed in behalf of the Israelites, their ancestors. And I was wondering why? Why is it so important that we remember the things our ancestors went through? Now, that’s probably a question with many answers, but the conclusion I came to is that our heritage is our foundation. When we remember our ancestors’ strength in the face of trials, we are strengthened. Our faith grows when we know and understand their examples of faith. Their acts of courage give us the courage we need to press on.

This is Memorial Day weekend. It’s a time when it is natural for us to remember those who have sacrificed for us, and who have passed on. I am sure that today, as you’ve sat here, many of you have had someone come to your mind—someone who you remember, whose memory inspires you to be a better person.

I remember my grandfather. We never had the opportunity to talk much, and so it was at his funeral that I learned that he had served in the military. I honor his example of quiet service.

I also remember my dad, who died four years ago this August. When I remember my dad, I remember how he served faithfully and magnified his church callings. I remember that he was the only faithful convert in his family, but he never gave up hope. I remember his courage and perseverance through a long, difficult battle with cancer. And whenever I remember these things, I feel inspired to rise to a new level of courage, perseverance, hope and service.

Most importantly, today and every day, we are commanded to remember our Redeemer, Jesus Christ. “O remember, remember that there is no other way nor means whereby man can be saved, only through the atoning blood of Jesus Christ; yea, remember that he cometh to redeem the world…Remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of god, that ye must build your foundation.” (Helaman 5:9-12)

Each Sunday, we gather to partake of the sacrament, in remembrance of the Savior. He commanded us to do so, to remember His flesh and blood, that we will be “built upon His rock,” and that we may always “have His spirit to be with us.” (3 Nephi 18:11-12)

Jesus Christ is the way, the truth and the life. We must remember Him, because He must be at the center of our lives. His gospel provides us with the answers each of us needs. In a priesthood session of General Conference a few years ago, President Henry B. Eyring, shared his personal testimony of why it is so important to remember Christ. He says that at his most difficult times, when he feels the most weary, he gives himself “this rallying cry: Remember Him. The Lord is our perfect example of diligence in service. He is our Captain. He called us. He goes before us. He chose us to follow Him and to bring others with us. This evening, I remember Him, and it stirs my heart. This is the Saturday night before Easter Sunday. When you remember His resurrection, I remember His example in the days before. From the cross on Calvary, the Savior announced, ‘It is finished.’ Then His Spirit left His body, and His mortal remains were placed lovingly in a tomb. He taught us a lesson by what he did in three days in the Spirit world before His resurrection, which I remember whenever I am tempted to feel that I have finished some hard task in His service, and deserve a rest. The Savior’s example gives me courage to press on. His labors in mortality were finished, but He entered the Spirit World determined to continue His glorious work to save souls.”

I love this quote from President Eyring. Christ truly is our perfect Example. By remembering Him, and remembering His great Atonement, we can become the disciples He needs us to be. We can become more like Him. I am so grateful for our Savior, and the great plan of salvation that makes it possible for each of us to return to live with our Heavenly Father again.

I testify that as you remember these things, your life will be blessed. Jesus Christ is our living Savior. Keeping his commandments brings us peace and joy.

Sister Devynne Barret

Saint Louis Missouri Mission, May 25, 2014

Monday, June 23, 2014

Week 39





Some pictures of our house! It's quite strange to be in a house instead of an apartment. My desk is a mess... You see some ant killer... my calendar... and a typewriter! I found that here. It is so cool. Missionaries collect some of the weirdest things, especially elders. And in the first picture, there's the piano. I've been practicing!




​The house from the outside.

Yeah, it's a little more maintenance than an apartment... But so worth it! Oh man, I love it. It's owned by a less active member in the branch who rents it to the church. I'm pretty sure it's because there aren't many apartment complexes in Paris. The young men and the branch presidency helped us do some yard work the other day, which was good.

Thanks to mom for the keyboard cord, I've been plunking away :) I don't think that I'll have to be the Relief Society pianist much longer, since a new family moved in and the wife can play. I think I'll still try to practice though... Can't hurt, and who knows if I'll need to play again some time in the future!

This week was a really good week for missionary work! We've been finding new investigators every week, and this week we were able to teach 10 lessons to investigators and 10 lessons to recent converts/less active members. We have a couple of investigators who are really amazing... 

I told you about Annie. Well, we've been able to meet with her a couple of times, and they've gone really well. She hasn't come to church yet (none of our investigators have, which is the tough part. Come to church!), but I think she will. She wants her daughters to start learning about the church as well, which is awesome! I think we're going to start the lessons with them tonight.

Rhonda is struggling a bit more. It's tough, because she's gotten very comfortable with missionaries, so she knows what we do. She has a lot of questions about her testimony and what we believe.

Toni is doing surprisingly well! We were nervous about teaching her, because she is a little different, but she watched the DVD we left with her (The Restoration) and read the pamphlet, and accepted The Book of Mormon. We read 1 Nephi 8 with her, and the Spirit definitely was there. Unfortunately, we had that lesson outside, and the mosquitoes are thriving again... Good-bye, legs that aren't covered with red bumps (I wear bug spray! I promise! Just forgot that day...).

One of the new investigators we picked up this week is Dana. She is an interesting woman. She's a self-proclaimed workaholic, and has a lot of faith in Christ. But she moved here from Arizona, where one of her best friends was LDS. I don't know if she's investigating out of curiosity, because she likes talking to Godly people, or out of interest... Probably mostly the first two. But hey, that's alright for starters :)

Anyway, I love the people here and the work is going well! Paris may be a small town, but there's a lot of potential. The branch is going to kick off a "home teacher v. visiting teacher" competition next month, to hopefully boost our home and visiting teaching (I'm really gaining a testimony of how important those are! They unify the members. Go and do it!). And this Sunday is the baptism of the 10-year-old son of the Primary president. It is so weird to count that as a baptism, but hey, rules are rules! We're hoping we'll be able to have some investigators come. Baptisms are always really spiritual experiences. I love to go! 

From my personal study this week... I have been all over the place. In the Book of Mormon, I was reading in 2 Nephi 22, which is the Isaiah chapters. I love these verses: "Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid; for the Lord JEHOVAH is my strength and my song; he also has become my salvation. Therefore, with joy shall ye draw water out of the wells of salvation." 

When we teach about the plan of salvation, we usually begin by talking about salvation, and what salvation means. It means being saved, of course, but in the gospel, it means being saved from both physical and spiritual death (sin). So, Jesus Christ is our salvation from death, but how do we draw water from the wells of salvation? As I thought about it, I thought one thing that might mean is that we can draw upon the power of the Atonement. The Atonement is the means by which salvation comes, and we can draw upon its power and feel that joy. Daily! We should daily draw strength, forgiveness, and power from the Atonement.

Well, I think I'm going to be kicked off shortly, so...

Be good! I LOVE YOU ALL!

Sister Barret

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Week 38

:) I have been practicing the piano like a madwoman! You'd be in awe. I started just playing the hymns through one at a time (one verse for each) and I'm already on hymn 50 or something. I guess I just had to be forced into playing in front of people... haha. Glad it's just Relief Society!

I did get the letters! I got three letters in one day, and then one the next. Mail here is weird.

I'm out of time, here's a picture of me and Sister Schwenke! Love to all,

Sister Barret


Week 36 & 37

Hey! Transfer calls were this Saturday, and I am heading to PARIS! ...Illinois. Paris appears to be on the Illinois/Indiana border (heading far from St Louis again), and it's a branch! And we'll (me and Sister Schwenke, my new comp) be the only missionaries serving there, so this will definitely be a change of pace for me. I am way excited though, farms and flat land here I come!

I promised a picture from the temple, so...




This is Sister Webb, Sister Mendenhall, and I at the temple last Tuesday. It was so great! I was so glad to be back there. 


Also, in further Dumpster Diving endeavors... Okay, not really. There was no diving involved. But we saw these two chairs sitting OUTSIDE of a Dumpster in our complex when we were coming in one evening, and Sister Nelson and I just looked at each other... and before you knew it, they were in our shower being disinfected by bleach! :)


This week overall was a pretty slow week though. We dropped all three of our investigators... One told us she couldn't meet with us right now because she was being kicked out of her house. One hasn't been progressing even though we've been teaching her fairly regularly. She says that she is too dedicated to her own church to ever make a change. One, the pastor that was picked up a while ago, said that he read the Book of Mormon (the first part of it) and "didn't get anything out of it." He was also applying for a job at another church, so we think that may have something to do with it... Which was tough. But a clean slate can be a good thing. Miracles happen when you least expect it, and when you're working the hardest! 

But man oh man, tracting in the hot humid weather is blech... I got very sweaty this week.

Oh! We did some interesting service for a member this week. She called us and asked if we would like some food from her freezer when she moved. Who says no to free food? Well, this week she called us and said, "Oh, bring the elders... and would you mind helping me move a few things in the garage?" Of course we don't mind. The job turned out a little bigger than we anticipated though, so we only made it through a little bit. I cleaned out my corner of the garage though! :)

Had some good thunderstorms this week! Ok, mostly one good one. But it was fun to watch! I saw a really neat lightning strike. 

Also! Uncle Steve and Garrett totally surprised me! Here I was, just getting ready for church, and boom! Uncle and cousin walk in and sit down. I was very surprised! I feel bad, I probably said half the things I would have... I thought of all my questions after they left! But it was a nice surprise :)

One of the things I've been trying to do in my personal study is implement more General Conference talks. While I was at the temple, I purchased my own copy of the General Conference issue of the Ensign, so I could mark it up and take it with me. This week, I read two talks: Elder Hales' "If Ye Love Me, Keep My Commandments," and President Eyring's "The Priesthood Man." 

​Both excellent. I loved Elder Hales' talk. It focused on obedience, and it makes the comment that obedience is motivated by love. When we love Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father, we will be obedient. And we show our love for Them through our obedience: "Our love of the Savior is the key to Savior-like obedience." 

In President Eyring's talk, I appreciated his comments on how to be a righteous role model. He talked about three things we can do: Pray fervently, serve diligently, and be committed to honesty. I liked how he showed that each led to the next: as we pray specifically and earnestly, we will be inspired to know who to serve and when. As we served those people, we will be more dedicated to serving Heavenly Father, and we will lose our desire to be dishonest in any way. "Any way" includes so many things, I realized. We're dishonest when we act in a way that goes against the promises we've made with God.

Anyway, I will try to grab a few more pictures and send them your way. Uncle Steve told me I need to send more pictures :) 

City Museum:


My district:




Love you!
Sister Barret

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Week 35

And so, today actually, I got to go to the temple!!! YAY! It was really unexpected. Let me explain how this all went down...
So, the temple attendance policy is that you can attend the temple twice on your mission, once at the half-way mark and once at the end (more if you have recent converts going through, but that's another story). Well, I thought that meant that if you hit half-way you get to go no matter what. Not necessarily. Sister Nelson told me that if you are in a further out area, you have to wait until you get closer in to the city. So, transfers are coming up, I'm coming up on my half-way mark, and I thought... "What if I get transferred to Illinois or something and stay far away from the city the rest of my mission?" Nope. Not taking that risk. Well, in order to get permission, you have to ask your district leader, who then runs it up the chain of leadership. So I ask my district leader Sunday if I could go, hopefully before the end of transfers. I was thinking next week, because you have to switch your P-Day to do it and all that. Well, I don't hear back all yesterday... I text him and he says he hasn't heard anything... Then this morning, he calls us at 7 AM and says, "Ok, Sister Barret. Good news, you can go... but they want you to go today. In two hours. With these two other sisters who are going today." 

I was expecting a little more preparation time! But hey, I wasn't about to miss my chance! So, change of plans for the day... and I headed to the temple!

And it was really great. I am so glad I got to go. I miss getting to go to the temple as frequently as I did at home. It was actually really neat, because there were several members from the Oakville ward at the temple too, so I got to see quite a few people that I knew!

In other news...​I was getting a little tired of my hair color...


​So...

We dyed!

I realized that I don't have any "after photos" so this is as good as you're getting for now... you totally can't tell in this photo haha but I went red again! Mom, you should be happy. I will try to get a better picture of my hair this week!

I almost went and cut my hair short too, but I stopped myself! It's just a mid-mission crisis :)

We went to the City Museum on Monday, which was a lot of fun. And crawling and climbing and squeezing. We only got lost in the caves a couple of times...

In more spiritual news... actually, the temple's pretty spiritual. Never mind. 

We did a lot of contacting and tracting this week! Good stuff. Tracting is tough, I'm not going to lie, because very few doors are receptive. But we have to find those people who are receptive somehow! And we definitely meet a lot of really great people tracting. And we get a tan. Bonuses! I have a fantastic watch tan line!

In my personal study, I am almost at the end of the Book of Mormon. I just finished reading about the destruction of the Nephites, and now I'm on to the destruction of the Jaredites. One scripture that stood out to me was Mormon speaking to us in the latter days, particularly the Gentiles. He says, "For I know that such will sorrow for the calamity of the house of Israel; yea, they will sorrow for the destruction of this people; they will sorrow that this people had not repented that they might have been clasped in the arms of Jesus" (Mormon 5:11). 

I love that Mormon basically says that he knows that we'll care that his people were destroyed. To some people, it is just an interesting story, with a lot of war and a lot of destruction. But if we read and know for ourselves that the book is true, we know that these people really lived and died! And this time, as I read about their destruction, I really did feel the sorrow that Mormon described. I felt his pain as he described the sins of the people, and how they failed to repent and thus enjoy the blessings of the gospel.

I know that the Book of Mormon is true! These people were real!

I love you all! I hope you all are praying for missionary opportunities :)

Shout-out to the new Skyridge Middle School ASB President, Mr. Quinn Barret!

Love

Sister Devynne Barret