Monday, November 24, 2014

Week 61: Life In The Fast Lane!

Phew! What a week! I feel like last week went by quicker than any, and yet it's been forever since last P-Day. Still adjusting to the phenomenon of time on the mission...

So. Wow. What a week.

Last Monday, Sister Auble and I spent basically the whole rest of our P-Day after emailing packing/cleaning/getting our area in order. Being whitewashed out (both of us leaving and being replaced by two new missionaries) of an area is not my favorite experience. 

Tuesday... ha. So. We planned a great, full day of missionary work. Then it had gotten down to the teens the night before. We went to the car to head off to our first appointment.... aaaaaaaaaand the car wouldn't start. Yup. Dead battery. We called some members to help us out, and we spent about an hour trying to jump it... No luck. We called a tow company, they pulled out the big guns and jumped it, and then we had to go to the repair company and wait for them to replace the battery. What a way to end our time in Columbia! Definitely threw a wrench into our plans for the day! But we were able to go see some people, finish packing/cleaning/organizing, and get ready to go! 

Wednesday was the first day of my new responsibility as an STL (I'm trying to make it sound as dramatic as possible). We had to get to transfer meeting bright and early so I could be in a leadership training meeting, which was really neat. President Morgan basically taught us about how we should love the missionaries in our stewardship, and how we should live as an example. Then transfer meeting, which was great. I love getting to gather with all the missionaries (or a lot of the missionaries, it's not really all of them...). There's always a special, powerful spirit when there is a gathering of missionaries. I love being a missionary. I am so grateful to be one. There are times when I just have to stop and I have this moment of, "Is this real? Am I really a missionary? Am I really out knocking doors and sharing the gospel with people?" And I love those moments, because it is always such a special reminder that this is a sacred time. 



​Both Sister Edgel and I have new companions whose names are Sister Martinez! What are the odds? (The one next to me is my new companion :))

So, after transfer meeting, Sister Martinez and I headed off to Springfield! And thus began my next adventure ;)

I love Springfield. This area is fantastic. The ward is so missionary minded, and the missionaries that have been serving in this area have been amazing. 

I feel like I have a million things to write about but nothing to say! Friday, we had Missionary Leadership Council, which happens once a transfer when President and Sister Morgan, the assistants, all of the zone leaders and all of the sister training leaders. It's where we discuss the new policies, our areas and the missionaries we have stewardship over, the direction that the mission president wants the mission to move over the next six weeks, and so on. It was an incredible experience! The most exciting this is the new "He Is The Gift" Initiative that the church is beginning. It's a new Christmas video and website that the church is creating: christmas.mormon.org. It launches November 28, so definitely check it out! The Church has also made special pass-along cards for the video, and every missionary companionship is going to be expected to hand out 10 pass-along cards every day through December, inviting people to check out the video. And in the Ensign this month, there will be a booklet explaining the initiative. IT'S GOING TO BE HUGE. We got to preview the video, and it's amazing. Definitely watch it. Watch it, and invite your friends to watch it, and share it. 

I want to hear what you all think and how you share it! :)

Other than that... We've gotten to visit several of our investigators. We have some who are really close to progressing towards baptism. There are 17 currently in our teaching pool, and they're at all stages of the process. One woman, Crystal, came to church this week, and she loved Gospel Principles. She made comments, and kept nodding... It was way cool. 

Here's a miracle that we saw happen! So, at church on Sunday, we saw a woman in Gospel Principles that we didn't recognize, and then again after Relief Society. So Sister Martinez said, "We have to catch her!" So we were basically chasing her down the hallway after church (okay, not that bad, but close!) and we catch her, and talk to her. And she's been inactive for seven years, and just decided to follow the prompting to come to church yesterday! And showed up! It was amazing. So we asked her if we could come visit her, and she said, "Yeah, sure!" We asked if we could talk to her husband, a non-member, about the church, and she said, "Yeah, sure! I don't know as much as I want to either, so I'd like that." 

! Miracles happen! :)

Everyone enjoy Thanksgiving! It's a perfect time of the year to reflect on all of the blessings that God has given us. Here's a super abbreviated list of things I'm thankful for right now:

Modern technology hastening the work!
Good, old-fashioned missionary work
Obedience brings the blessings!
My FAMILY
Temples
The power of the priesthood
Fudge ;)
My Savior
The scriptures and God's answers through them
Inspiration when you're on your knees

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Love,

Sister Barret

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Week 59: Week of Miracles!

So, there have been a lot of miracles this week, and we have been extra aware of it. Here's why! 

We have district meeting on Tuesdays, and this week, President and Sister Morgan came to our district meeting. It was a kind of good-bye visit for the two elders in our district who are going home at the end of this transfer. Well, I had previously volunteered the information that I enjoy giving trainings... so I was asked to give a training at district meeting on "Attitude" and having a positive attitude. Yes, Mom, I know, you're laughing right now. But we talked about how having a positive attitude about your mission can really shape the direction/results of your mission, which then will affect the rest of your life. There have been some issues with attitude in our district this transfer, so it was a really interesting training to give. The commitment I left at the end of the training was to at the end of each day, reflect on your day and as a companionship, talk about a miracle that happened that day.

We've been seeing a lot of miracles since then!

Now, my number one miracle might seem a little silly, but it is the end of a five year quest, and I know my family will appreciate it...

​I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally made fudge right!!!!

I bought all the ingredients on Monday, but I got the generic brand of marshmallow creme, and it didn't have the recipe on it... so since we don't have a Walmart in Columbia, I asked the Waterloo elders to run to the Walmart when they had a chance and find the Jet-Puffed Marshmallow Creme to get the recipe, and they got me the recipe on Saturday, so Saturday night, I pulled up my britches and made the yearly attempt...

and it turned out PERFECT! 

To tell the truth, the reason I think that it actually turned out right is because I knelt down and prayed before I started making the fudge. 

Hopefully, it wasn't just a fluke... I got enough stuff to make two batches, so I'll have to test and see if I can repeat the experience. I don't really need that much fudge on hand. Luckily, the Waterloo elders ate about half the pan yesterday...

So, silly? Maybe. But for me, it was definitely evidence that Heavenly Father cares about the little things as well. He knew that I wanted to make fudge just like Dad used to make, and He made it happen for me. And I am so grateful!

Other miracles we saw this week...

I got the most wonderful letter from the mission office this week. The mission office sends out a welcome letter to every new convert, and they ask for them to send in a copy of their testimony and how they felt on the day of their baptism. They sent one to Kelly, the lady we just helped get baptized in Paris. And she wrote them in return, and they were kind enough to make a copy and send it to me, with a little note. And it was the sweetest, most wonderful testimony that I have ever read! It makes me so happy that I had the chance to teach her and help her to join the church and make those sacred covenants with Heavenly Father. Such a blessing! Being a missionary is the best :)

We found four new investigators this week... that was a HUGE miracle for us! A lot of our finding right now... in fact, all four of the investigators we found this week came through tracting. It's a start for us. Tracting is tough, but it's all about casting the net wide. One thing that I really do love about tracting is that you can find and talk to so many different types of people. These are people that normally I would never meet or talk to, just because our paths would never cross. And I have found that people are generally kind, polite, and... not interested. At least not yet! 

Another miracle is that we didn't find ourselves in the middle of a horror movie when we went and knocked on this house.

​Seriously though, it sounds like the plot line for a horror film. I wish I had a video or something of the whole thing. It's way back in the middle of corn fields, and it is called "still point" or something... And there were a ton of cars in this lot, but the place looked abandoned. And there was a big garden (you can see a corner of it in the picture) and a barn and another building... Yep. Creepy. 

My trainer goes home next week! Unbelievable. Must mean that I've been on my mission for a while!

I've been enjoying reading Jesus the Christ in my personal study. I am currently reading about the last days of Christ's life, and it's so compelling to study. I read it during preparation time, lunch, before bed... It's a long book, but the life of Jesus is a beautiful thing to study. 

All my prayers to all of you! One week to transfer calls, we'll find out Saturday what will happen!

And just one reminder, to anyone who might send me mail: the mission office can no longer forward mail. So any mail that gets sent there will get to me... eventually. Just slower than before. I'll let you know the new address as soon as possible.

Lots of love,

Sister Barret

Week 60: Longest Email Ever

Hello everyone! So, I am actually typing this on a Word document, because surprise! It snowed in November! And apparently, there was a power outage at the library, which knocked out their Internet, which… is still down. That is a real bummer. Obviously. But I hopefully can save myself some time now by typing this up.

This was a crazy eventful week! I don’t even know where to start. So, on Tuesday, it was my 14 month mark! Crazy. Every time the 11th of a month rolls by, I am always surprised. It’s strange how quickly the months have been ticking by. And someone just warned me yesterday that your third-to-last transfer is “Wow, that was the fastest transfer of my mission!” And then your second-to-last transfer is “Wow, that was even faster than last transfer!” And then your last transfer is “What just happened?” When I think that I have four and a half months left on my mission, it feels like I’ve still got quite a bit of time left. When I think of it in terms of three transfers… Um, that’s how long I spent in Paris. That’s less time than I spent in Poplar Bluff. Anyway, Tuesday was also awesome because we did the funeral for Elder Smith and Elder Locklear! Yeah, not going to lie, we threw an amazing funeral for those two elders. 

Family, don’t expect much of a letter this week. Sorry! But this is going to be really long, so hopefully that will make up for some of it. Oh, before I forget, my new address: 120 Springcreek Dr. Springfield, IL 62702.

We tracted for most of the day Wednesday. You know what I don’t like about tracting? I try to have a positive attitude about it overall, and really, it’s the best thing that we could be doing in this area to get some investigators and to get things moving forward. But it’s also demonstrably the least effective way to do missionary work. And that’s tough. I like to be effective, and I don’t feel as effective as I could be when I spend a whole day tracting. It’s a building thing, which is alright, but it’s emotionally (and physically) exhausting.

Thursday was a pretty good day. We were able to see our investigator Mary. She wanted it to be very clear that “I am a Catholic!” We’re like, “Okay! Can we still share the things we know?” :) Most of the rest of the day we spent contacting less active members. Which is still one of the things that I was surprised about with missionary work. I did not know how much work the missionaries did visiting and helping less active members! But it is as important to help less active members find their conversion as it is to help non-members. And often, it can lead to other missionary experiences. Look at the Hardens in Paris!

We had dinner with a way sweet less active family. They made lasagna. It was good, but not as delicious as ours ;) I just definitely prefer cottage cheese.

Friday, we did our weekly planning. Always an interesting thing when you’re waiting for transfer calls, since you have no clue where you’ll be by the next week. It was good though. I love weekly planning, because it is really able to set the tone for your week. If you’re thorough and follow the instructions in Preach My Gospel, the weekly planning session can make your area so organized and so prepared for the next week. If you don’t… let’s just say, you won’t be as effective as you could be.

Sister Auble received a blessing for her knee. It was another cool experience with the priesthood. She has tendonitis and it had been giving her a lot of pain. Well, after she received that blessing, she started feeling way better and she hasn’t had the same pain.

That evening was probably the busiest four hours we’ve had as companions! We had an appointment with a recent convert and an active member who are sisters, and we talked with them about missionary work. Then we went to visit a less active member and invited her to church. Then we went to a part-member family’s house for dinner and shared a message about the Atonement. Then we went to a less active family’s house (where we hadn’t been able to get in before!) and shared a message about obedience. They have a hairless cat. It’s the ugliest thing. They named him “Jafar Voldemort.” Phew! It was awesome. I love being busy, and I love when we get to teach! Definitely it’s my favorite.

Saturday we had a lot of fun. The branch president and his wife invited us to their house for lunch and for the elders to bring up their Christmas trees. We had toasted cheese sandwiches and tomato soup, and while the elders carried up and set up the Christmas trees (they have two, and one was a 12 footer), I made fudge again. And it turned out perfect again :) which made me really happy. Then it started snowing. It felt like Christmas. We haven’t even had Thanksgiving yet!

Well! Then at about 3 pm, Sister Auble checks the phone and says, “Hey! President Morgan called! And he left a message!” That almost never happens… President Morgan calling, that is. We listen to the message, and he says, “Could Sister Barret call me back?” And my heart starts pounding. See, here’s the thing. Our district leader was an office elder and a zone leader before he came to our district for his last transfer, so he thought that he was “in the know.” So, he’d been telling me for the last couple weeks that I’d become a sister training leader next transfer. I usually just rolled my eyes. So… yeah, when I got that phone call, I was pretty sure that that was what was happening. I call President back. No answer. He calls us back. I answer. And basically, he said, “I just wanted to tell you that you are being assigned as a sister training leader.” Okay, there was more than that. Before he told me that, he asked me, “Sister Barret, do you support me fully as your mission president?”

That caused a minor panic attack… I thought he was going to tell me that he was giving me some awful assignment next transfer! Ha. But no, he told me that I was going to be an STL!

Well, that kind of blew my mind. Yup. I was a little distracted the rest of the day.

We didn’t get official transfer calls until later that evening. We are being whitewashed out of Columbia, which means both of us are leaving and two new sisters are being put in (one of them is Sister Esterholdt!). Sister Auble is going to St Louis Hills, in the city. I’m going to Lincoln, Illinois and I’m going to be with Sister Martinez. Which means a) I might finish out my mission in Illinois! And b) I’m going to be the sister training leader over Paris! So I might be able to go on exchanges there :D which would be amazing. We’ll see what happens though!

Unbelievable. I feel very humbled. I didn’t think that I would become an STL. I thought I’d be move somewhere and maybe train my last two transfers. Guess my baby will be an only child!
Sunday then was the last Sunday in the Waterloo Branch for me, Sister Auble, and one of the elders. The branch was pretty sad about that, especially the branch mission leader and the branch president. We had some good things that started happening really in the last six weeks. The three of us who are leaving were asked to share a brief testimony. And Sister Auble and I did a musical number… the same one we did for the funeral. We did an acapella mash of “Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing” and “Brightly Beams Our Father’s Mercy.” And she sang soprano and I sang alto. Again, not going to lie… It was pretty amazing. I saw at least five or six people crying, and we got so many compliments. Someone said it’s the best musical number they’ve ever heard in sacrament meeting, and our branch president said he’s pretty sure he heard angels singing with us.

Sister Auble and I did Singing Time in Primary because the normal music person wasn’t there. That was fun! We just did all the fun songs… and Christmas songs!

After church, I got a blessing because I was feeling (I AM feeling) pretty nervous about my new assignment. In fact, I hardly slept Saturday night, so I figured that I should probably get some sleep between Saturday and Wednesday if I wanted to not be in a complete fog for the first week of the transfer. But it was another great experience. I always work myself up about asking for a blessing… I worry “Should I? Is it weird? Is it necessary?” etc. But I have never regretted asking for a blessing, and I’ve had some very special experiences receiving blessings, especially since I’ve started recording the things I remember about the blessing afterwards. Then I’m able to go back and reflect on that, reflect on the things that I’ve learned since then, and I’m able to see promises being fulfilled. For example, I remember a blessing I received way back when in Poplar Bluff. I had been feeling pretty discouraged and down for a week or two, so I asked my district leader to give me a blessing. One of the things I remember was the promise, “This experience is helping you prepare for even more difficult things to come.”

Well, who wants to hear that when they’re feeling depressed?! But really, I have definitely seen that blessing be fulfilled on my mission. The things I learned from that experience, I have been able to apply to help me when I was struggling a lot more than I did in Poplar Bluff.

We had lunch with a member, and then we had a great lesson with a man named Gary. We brought a member with us, and it went really well! We taught him about what the Book of Mormon is and why it’s important, and invited him to pray about it.

Then we had dinner with some more members! Seriously, we have been fed the most I’ve ever been fed on my mission over the last couple of weeks. It’s ridiculous. I’m not going to complain, I think it’s hilarious! Right after Sister Auble and I have a great shopping trip to Aldi… Anyway. The member taught us all how to cure our own bacon, which was pretty neat! And we had homemade bacon and pancakes from scratch. Yum. They are a super cute family; they have four little girls and a boy on the way.

Yup. Great week. Sorry about the massive email! Okay, not really. You all don’t have to read them if you don’t want. I’m just adding lots of details, because we’ve been here now for almost an hour and forty-five minutes, and the Internet has still not been turned on. And I still don’t know the transfer results for the people I know!!!

Sister Richardson, my trainer, and our district leader go home today. She’s my last senior companion to go. Every other companion I have had goes home after me. Crazy. It’s tough to see people go. Even though we don’t really get to talk much or see each other often, you know that they are out there in the mission field with you… and now, they’re going home!

The good news is that there are no real good-byes in the gospel of Jesus Christ. There are only “See you laters”! That’s definitely a comfort on a mission. It’s so difficult to say good-bye to some people that you’ve come to love, and then not know if you are ever going to see them again. But we are going to see each other again! I’ve been reflecting a lot on my testimony this week, because whenever you’re leaving as a missionary, people ask you for your testimony a ton. And I realized that a lot of my testimony is centered on the plan of salvation, because the plan of salvation is the fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ! It’s the way that God implemented for us to return to live with Him, with our heavenly family, and with our earthly family, in perfect joy forever. I am so grateful for a sure knowledge that I can be with my family forever. I know that the sealing power is real. I know it!

Alright, the Internet just got back on, so I’m going to wrap this up. Love you all! I’ll send pictures on a later email.

Sister Devynne Barret

Monday, November 3, 2014

Week 58

Alright, Mom requested that I give a little more detail this week about what we've been up to here in Columbia. I'll try :) 

Monday: P-Day! Haha. I love P-Day. After P-Day, we had a family home evening with a member. We taught about the plan of salvation, the spirit world, and then about ghosts (Halloween themed!). We then made ghosts out of tissues and Tootsie Pops. Very fun.

Tuesday, we had our district meeting. It was a good one. We had a training on accountability, and were challenged to try to be more accountable for our missionary efforts. I love the aspect of accountability in missionary work. We report our key indicators every week, we report on our stewardship (investigators and the area) every week at district meeting, and we report to the mission president every Monday. Not only that, but we have president interviews every three months. Most importantly, we report to the Lord every evening. 

In the evening, since we had plenty of miles left for the month, we headed down to the small town of Red Bud, and met a less active member who was very sweet.

Wednesday, we spent a lot of time tracting. This is the area where I have tracted the most! It's definitely interesting. I'm grateful for the experience! We found a new investigator: he's an ordained minister, a former engineer for the government, and also totally won the lottery. Yep, you meet some interesting people on your mission! 

Thursday, we also did a lot of driving :) We met with one of our investigators, and had a good talk with her. She's very sweet, but also quite nuts. It's not a good sign when you mention her to a neighbor and they say, "Oh. Her?"

Oh well! Everyone gets a chance to receive the gospel!
Friday, we had weekly planning, and went tracting before we were parked for Halloween. It was a good tracting session, we set two return appointments! And one of the people that we met had gone to the church for about a year earlier in her life, and she said that she'd definitely be interested in coming back! We're excited for that :)

Halloween was pretty great. A family invited both sets of missionaries over for the evening, and we had pizza and birthday cake, and played pool. Guess what: I stink at pool. No surprise there!

Sister Auble and I dressed up:



​Can you guess what we went as?

If you guessed hipster missionaries, you're right! haha.

We cultivated those bored expressions. 

Saturday was interesting. The highlight was the branch activity, it was a Trunk or Treat/Chili Cook-off. For the second time on my mission, I judged a chili cook off. Which was fun. I dressed up as a hipster again--different outfit--but I don't have a picture of it. I'll try to get it from one of the members who took pictures.

Sunday, Church! We had a good time there, of course. We spent the day contacting potential investigators, and set a return appointment. Dinner was with the branch mission leader's family, which is actually the first time that I've had dinner at my mission leader's house while I've been on my mission! Fun fact :)

In my personal study, I've been studying a lot in the first lesson, the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I love the first lesson. Really, the first lesson has parts from all of the lessons in it. Because of the Restoration, we have knowledge of God's plan for us, the plan of salvation. Because of the Restoration, we know the way that Jesus Christ has laid out for us. We know the proper manner of baptism. We know the commandments God has give us. We can go to the temple and be further instructed. I'm so grateful for the message of the Restoration, and I'm so lucky to be out here sharing it! I think I've been more reflective over my mission since my year mark, because I'm finally realizing how rapidly it goes, and I can see more and more distinctively the ways that I've changed and grown. I love sharing the gospel.

Hope you are all doing well! Oh, a highlight from this morning: I got to call Sister Edgel because it was her birthday and I wanted to surprise her :) She got to fill me in on Paris, and how she's been doing. There have been great things happening there, which is so much fun to hear about! 

Love
Sister Barret